The INFP is intrigued by the ESTJs practical, outspoken nature and the ESTJ is fascinated by the INFPS gentle, insightful demeanor.
They expect and demand respect and obedience from their children and can easily become overbearing with this.
While ENFPs can teach the INTJ spontaneity, INTJs help ENFPs slow down and look before they leap.
Try to listen fully before suggesting a solution, and ask them if they want any help coming up with a solution first before even offering.
It is useful to look at the personality types each of the 16 personalities is compatible with.