My advice is to talk to your sweetheart and tell him about your concerns.
As an adult I felt a lot better about my body, and I was happy with my vulva.
They would be ashamed to even step outside of their homes into the village, for all girls knew that they had the smallest inner labia.
And especially my clitoral hood, which I find quite large.
The life expectancy is very low, at 61 years for women, and 58 years for men.