My mom on the other hand, is a very strong person and is a mom to two children from my stepdad.
Your father is a fuck-scum-monster.
I can't tell you any specifics.
i am just appauled, APPAULED! I remember going speechless and literally freezing.
I meet him every time in the hope of receiving the love that I was denied.
Father's aren't, by default, bad parents, you know.