The satyre that is the somatic narcissist is forever trapped in the intellectual cage of the cerebral one, the Brain.
The narcissist does not expect or accept same behavior from his partner.
At this late stage, he is likely to entertain suicidal ideation.
In other words, sometimes the narcissist feels compelled to cancel a contract just because he violated it and in order not to be tormented by his conscience by his Superego, the internalized voices of his parents and other meaningful adults in his childhood.
Secondary NS SNS emanates from people who are in repetitive or continuous touch with the narcissist.
The narcissist cannot envy the natives' successes and happiness - clearly they had a head start.